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Chapter 1 - The Revolution

  1. What is present in your life? Conflict, loneliness, stagnation? In what way are you committed to this result?
  1. What would you have to resolve within yourself in order for your relationship to operate with a sense of ease?

Chapter 2 - Relationship Excellence

  1. What emotional baggage from your family of origin is blocking you in your current relationship?
  1. How can you invite your partner to join you in co-creating relationship excellence when they don’t feel ready to do so?
  1. What, from your perspective, is the collusion at play in your relationship that is causing both of you to be less than your best?
  1. How would you describe the dance of your relationship? Be sure to include your steps as well as your partner’s (from your perspective).

Chapter 3 - The Purpose of Relationship

  1. In what way do you punish your partner for not living up to your relationship rules?
  1. What rules from your family system are you stuck in, causing you to get in your own way?

Chapter 4 - Words and Actions

  1. What “life sentence” has banished you from fully living your life and relationship?
  1. What are you unwilling to say no to and what impact is that having on your life?
  1. What is the writing on the wall that you are refusing to read in your relationship?

Chapter 5 - Three Relationship Killers

  1. How do you express anger and what is it costing your relationship?
  1. What unfinished business do you need to clean up? What’s keeping you from doing so?
  1. What insecurity is keeping you from entering fully into your relationship?

Chapter 6 - The Work of Men

  1. When did you first consider yourself to be a man?
  1. What is your biggest fear as a man?

Chapter 7 - The Work of Women

  1. How have you taken your partner for granted in the past?
  1. What ways do you try to change your man even though you know from experience that they’re not going to work?

Chapter 8 - The Work of the Relationship

  1. What five things would you like to change about yourself that would have you be more content?
  1. What are the non-negotiables in your relationship?

Chapter 9 - Telling the Truth

  1. What truth would you share in your relationship if you felt free to do so?
  1. What have you been unwilling to tell the truth about in relationship and what has prevented you from doing so?
  1. What truth is the most challenging for you to acknowledge?

Chapter 10 - Three Relationship Builders

  1. What major transitions have you been through during the past three years and what have you learned about yourself from them?
  1. What relationship rules would you like to create that would increase your freedom?