For couples, a minimum ten-session commitment will establish the awareness and insight necessary to renew the love you once felt. Couples work is achieved by each of you engaging in your individual work, taking responsibility for the impact of your behaviour and working together to bring out your best selves. I’m often asked what the single most important factor couples need to work on? The answer is this: Acceptance. We can only accept the love of another to the degree that we accept ourselves. Consequently, what we have difficulty in accepting about the other informs us about our own level of self-acceptance. It all begins at home.